💔 ᴀ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇɴ ʜᴇᴀʀᴛ ʀᴇᴠᴇᴀʟs ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴛʜɪɴɢ ɪɴsɪᴅᴇ ᴏғ ɪᴛ
ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢ ғᴏʀ ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ
📚 https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/how-to-stop-being-insecure-in-a-relationship/
contrary to what you might think, i actually don’t hate this page on Instagram. to be quite honest, the more statements i agreed with, the more i realized that i had strayed farther than what i thought. let me explain…
the bible says to not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind rom 12:2. my thoughts agreeing with these statements are inevitable in some cases, however the word already tells me what to do. renew my mind. renew my mind. renew my mind. renew my mind. DAILY. DAILY. DAILY. which means that out of the 6,000 thoughts per day, i’m going to have to consciously renew it. i’m going to have to turn away from some thoughts, challenge some thoughts.
the worst thing you can do is ignore the fact that some of these statements you actually agree with OR ignore the impact that the statements that you do agree with will have on your mind.
i no longer follow this page or others like it. i realized that as i was cleaning house, i didn’t want to dirty it back up again.
PT2.
as someone who is in a relationship, i had to be honest with myself and think. lets say i read things like this every single day, + i also spend every single day with my significant other. can i honestly say that my love for my partner in my heart will override the toxicity that i’m putting into my mind?
even if you’re single, but you want a relationship… out of the 6,000 thoughts you have, do you think your desire for companionship in your heart will override the consistent doubt you allow into your mind?
if i wanted love, a healthy relationship, or marriage - i had to renew my mind with things that would encourage that. not things that would play on my insecurity, doubt + unforgiveness.
i even caught myself once accusing my partner of something they weren’t even doing. thoughts are things. i began to materialize something in my life through thoughts that didn’t even apply to me simply because of what i was allowing into my mind.
what have you meditated on, affirmed, or encouraged in your life?
i know you have been hurt. lied to. cheated on. misused. abused. taken advantage of. lied on. criticized. manipulated. thrown away. discouraged. taken for granted. talked down on. made fun of. led on. deceived….
but the nicest thing a man has ever done for me personally, was die on a cross.
so i will no longer allow the thoughts of this world play on my insecurities + doubts, instead i will stand firm on the man who never lies. who sees me as the apple of His eye. who has a hope + a future for me, not just a hoopty + french fries.
ᴀʀᴛɪᴄʟᴇs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ɪɴᴅɪᴠɪᴅᴜᴀʟ sᴛᴜᴅʏ
3 Things to Do When You Don't Measure Up To Another Girl https://liesyoungwomenbelieve.com/3-things-to-do-when-you-dont-measure-up-to-another-girl/
What To Do When You Feel Ugly https://liesyoungwomenbelieve.com/feel-ugly/
When Your Heart Needs A Pep Talk https://liesyoungwomenbelieve.com/when-your-heart-needs-a-pep-talk/
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